A Prayer for Quick, Engaged Listening
Know this, my beloved brothers: Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness that God requires. (James 1:19–20)
Lord Jesus, I need this word today, a lot. People who love me have confronted me about being a poor listener, which is really more a case of hardly listening. You’ve given me two ears and one mouth, and the anatomical ratio is no mere accident. Help me become a much more engaged listener.
I’ll take my cue from you, Jesus. There’s no one more quick to listen. I never have to snap my fingers to get your attention. I never have to reel you back into focus. I never catch you looking away, as though you’re bored with me. I never have to repeat myself several times to make sure you heard what I really said. You never interrupt me. You never spin what I’m saying. You never talk over me when I’m trying to tell you something. There’s no one who listens as attentively, respectively, and compassionately as you.
I don’t need healing for deafness but grace for listening— first and foremost to you, Jesus. You’re always speaking, through the Scriptures, and you speak only words of life. What a foolish man I am not to hang on to every syllable you utter.
Help me give my wife, my children, and my friends the gift of being really heard. I find no joy in frustrating the very people who love me. Bring the gospel to bear in such a way that I will become more notorious for my good listening than for my frequent speaking.
It’s a humbling joy to confess specific sin to you today, Jesus. I’m confident of your care and help. I pray in the riches of your great name.
Amen.